Well anyhoo i'm just here to post up random stuff on what has been happenin lately since i havent really have a blog of my own to rant :p
Been notcing lately how guys really don't know how to handle a girl =_= so i guess i'm here to give lil' pointers on what to do and what not to do with a girl *not that i'm very experienced* just share what i know :p
What a girl wants in a man *according to my point of view* is :
1. A man who knows how to make decisions without making it too obvious.
*tip: girls likes to believe that they are in control in decision making process
eventhough we are indecisive in nature* :p
2. A man who knows how to show a good time/ entertain a girl
*DUH!* if u cant make a girl laugh at ur jokes or even crack a smile..
then u don't make the cut =_=
3. A confident guy =D
*truth is: ladies secretly wish guys would have more guts to come up to a
lady and ask her out.. even if u don't know her* This however, does not apply to assholes..
cuz thats just creepy. EVEN if u do wanna ask her out.. be creative and spontaneous! No one
likes cheesy lines or a half ass attempt on asking the girl out.
4. A man with a sprinkle of mysteriousness XD
When i say this.. i really mean "Don't show us ur crybaby side or uber girly side".
We know u have ur ups and downs and we do appreciate
that u let us into ur sensitive side.. BUT too much of it just makes us feel like we can't rely
on you :s *hint: we love to BELIEVE that our man can take on anything and that includes
our problems*
5. A man.. not a BOY.
A difference between a man and a boy is maturity. So yeah.. to all the guys who don't know
how to handle a girl when she needs u most or even respects her. BUZZ off.. u have no
business being in a relationship if u don't even know how be on time or how to be polite.
REALLY really hate it when a guy curses over every little thing *its really unattractive =_=*
6. Patience.
A guy with lotsa patience goes a long way with the ladies =) *remember: bad temper = UGLY
patience = DEVINE* I'm sure guys would like the same from the girls but u have to learn to
excuse us at times due to PMS.
A guy with a short fuse or loves to emo is a HUGE turn off!! Girls prolly labels them as
potential-wife-beaters.
At the same time, we'd like a guy with a good balance of sterness :p Otherwise we'll just
end up being spoilt by u.
7. Randomness.
Spending time making dinner for a girl once a while is cool =) Getting flowers for a girl
*without any occasion* would also be nice ( it doesnt have to be expensive, its the thought
that counts).
8. Small ego.
A guy who knows how to accept a girl's thought on a subject he totally disagrees with is
cool =) * even if u disagree with it, and u have already made ur point and she's stubborn..
learn to accept it just to ease her* OR u can disagree in a more constructive manner
by making her believe that she was right and at the same time instilling ur point of view to
allow her to agree with it :p Hahah that always works like a charm XD
9. A guy who doesnt flirt at all.
Flirting are for boys and pansies. A guy who doesnt flirt at all.. i mean AT ALL.. always leaves an impression on me. Dunno why, but a guy that manages to hold a conversation without a hint
of flirt just leaves me feeling *whoa* LOL
I'm only referring this to ladies who have built themselves a defence mechanism
against flirty guys. Totally hate those guys cuz it just makes me feel like thats how their like with other ladies as well. There's no delicate way to put this... but the truth is : every girl wants to feel like they're "special" to him. She doesnt want a ladies man that treats every girl the same way as he treats her.
Hehe.. anyways thats all for now. Just felt like sharing stuff before i get myself buried in work again. Do hope ya'll enjoy this post ;)
-Marianne-
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